Today he comes home saying his dad is mean.. Nothing new. I asked him why… He said “my dad wont quit spanking me”.. I try to shrug it off, eventhough we dont really believe in spanking… Then he continues, “And he smacks me in the head so he wont leave bruises on my butt”… WTF. Hide the bruises and give my child brain damage. Where is the sense in that? Im finding a therapist tomorrow. Im tired of this saga.